Date & Love With Confidence, Featured
Last night, I watched “The Holiday Calendar” (yes, the holiday movies have begun!). Warning – spoiler alert below! The main actress couldn’t see that her best friend, a beautiful, soulful, world-traveling man, was in love with her. He was...
Featured, Inner Alchemy, Personal Reflections, Art & Poetry
Many years ago, I didn’t know what religion, truth or sanctity was. I was fortunate to be born into an Indian religion, Jainism, which teaches, “Live and Let Live” (the same ‘Ahimsa’ or ethos of non-violence that Mahatma Gandhi promoted), in which the sacredness of...
Date & Love With Confidence, Dating & Relationships, Featured
I used to ask, “How does this relationship serve me?” or “How do I fix him?” or “How do I get him to see my point of view?” I know it sounds selfish, but it honestly did come from a place of having certain needs of mine met, like...
Date & Love With Confidence, Dating & Relationships, Featured
The other day, I got a call from a client. “Sarika, he’s been giving me the cold shoulder over the past two days, what do I do??” Have you been in that situation? Let’s face it. When a man shuts down or withdraws, it freaks us out. You begin to...
Dating & Relationships, Featured
Have you watched Indian Matchmaking on Netflix? As a Love and Relationship coach of Indian heritage (check out my new FREE ebook, “How to Date & Find Your Mate… Without the Masala”), a rom-com junkie and someone who’s experienced years of the ups...
Date & Love With Confidence, Featured
In Indian tantric teachings, there are five levels of desire. These are (roughly): 1. Longing and desiring for something or someone 2. Being mentally and emotionally disturbed by this object of desire 3. Becoming enchanted / intoxicated by this desire (thinking about...
