The Power of Your Vulnerability
As a young woman, I was always hard on myself to be the best I could. I was determined to be strong and be seen as capable, and independent when I needed to be. As I share in my ebook 5 Mistakes Women Make in Love this tendency ultimately pushed men away from me. I...
How to Know if He’s Into You
Last night, I watched “The Holiday Calendar” (yes, the holiday movies have begun!). Warning – spoiler alert below! The main actress couldn’t see that her best friend, a beautiful, soulful, world-traveling man, was in love with her. He was...
Meeting Him Where He’s At
I used to ask, “How does this relationship serve me?” or “How do I fix him?” or “How do I get him to see my point of view?” I know it sounds selfish, but it honestly did come from a place of having certain needs of mine met, like...
Why Men Shut Down or Disappear
The other day, I got a call from a client. “Sarika, he’s been giving me the cold shoulder over the past two days, what do I do??” Have you been in that situation? Let’s face it. When a man shuts down or withdraws, it freaks us out. You begin to...
The Five Levels of Desire
In Indian tantric teachings, there are five levels of desire. These are (roughly): 1. Longing and desiring for something or someone 2. Being mentally and emotionally disturbed by this object of desire 3. Becoming enchanted / intoxicated by this desire (thinking about...Are you ready to turn your dreams of finding your life partner into reality?
