ABOUT SARIKA JAIN
Relationships shape everything.
I help people build healthier ones.
I’m a relationship coach, author, and a former strategist with a Wharton MBA. Through private coaching, workshops and talks, I help accomplished women unlearn the patterns that keep love at arm’s length, so they can date authentically and build healthy relationships in every part of their life.
MY STORY
Two chapters, one lesson: everything is relationship.
Chapter one
Seeking answers on love
Before coaching, I built a successful career in consulting, finance, and tech. I earned my MBA at The Wharton School and worked at organizations like Bain, Merrill Lynch, and the World Bank. I was ambitious, accomplished, and juggling hundreds of first dates with a demanding career.
I approached love the way I approached work: try harder, be better, get it right. Then my fiancé broke off our engagement just weeks after proposing.
My search for answers led me to teachers around the world: psychologists, spiritual guides, a Buddhist monk, and even a Romanian psychic (yes, really). I realized I’d been repeating the same painful patterns. When I stopped trying to get love right and started listening to myself, everything shifted.
Within 90 days, I met my husband, Krishan.
Chapter two
Living the practice
Twelve years of marriage and three daughters later, I’ve learned that finding love is only the beginning. The deeper work, and the deeper joy, is staying fully yourself while you love imperfect people through an imperfect life.
I’ve lived through the seasons that test a relationship: becoming a mother, caring for a parent, grief, moving, and rebuilding community. I’m embracing motherhood as a spiritual journey, deepening my marriage, honoring my creativity, and listening more closely to myself, my body, and life itself.
All of it now shapes how I coach. I don’t just help women find love. I help them build the kind of love they can grow inside of.
The messiness of relationships is not only a gateway to better self-understanding, but also to leading a more fulfilling, authentic life.
Sarika Jain
MY PHILOSOPHY
What I believe about relationships
These aren’t rules or formulas. They’re the principles I’ve come to trust,
through my own relationships and years of walking alongside other women.
Relationships are the core
How we connect, communicate, and relate to others affects our happiness, our health, and our success, in dating, marriage, parenting, leadership and business alike.
Connection is cultivated, not found
Healthy relationships simply don’t happen to us. They grow from the conditions we create with intention and awareness, starting with how we treat ourselves.
Attunement over performance
You don’t need to audition for love. When you listen to what you truly feel and need, you naturally recognize, and are recognized by, the right people.
Love without losing yourself
A healthy relationship adds to your life. It never asks you to shrink, over-give, or set aside who you are.
Principles, not prescribed roles
There’s no single right model for modern love. What matters is shared values, honest communication, and a partnership that works for both of you.
Relationship is a practice
Finding love is one transformation. Learning to stay fully yourself while loving an imperfect person through an imperfect life is another, and it never really ends.
HOW I COACH
Inner work and practical strategy, together.
My approach is holistic. We work on two levels at once: the inner patterns that shape who you’re drawn to and how you show up in love, and the practical dating and relationship skills that help you meet, choose, and build a life with the right person.
I bring together everything I’ve learned: the strategic thinking of my business career, training in Imago Therapy and Nonviolent Communication, mindfulness, relationship science, and my own lived experience as a wife and mother. You won’t get a one-size-fits-all formula. You’ll get a guide who helps you hear your own truth clearly.
I work mainly with accomplished women who are single, dating, or in a relationship and ready for something healthier.
Beyond private coaching, I lead talks and workshops for hospitals, universities, women’s leadership events and community organizations on love, communication and leadership, from the 4 Keys to Thriving Relationships to the High-Achiever’s Paradox. Whether I’m working with one woman or a room of a hundred, my aim is the same: to help people build deeper, healthier relationships with themselves and each other.
BACKGROUND
Wharton MBA
and a computer science engineering background
Bain, Merrill Lynch & the World Bank
a career in consulting, finance, and tech before coaching
Author
The 90-Day Soulmate Plan, bestselling book on Amazon
Trained in
Life-Centered Therapy, Imago Therapy, Nonviolent Communication, mindfulness and relationship science
Coaching women since 2008
in dating, love, and relationships
Every relationship, at home, at work, and within ourselves, is an invitation to grow.
Let’s explore what yours can become, together.