Meeting Him Where He’s At
I used to ask, “How does this relationship serve me?” or “How do I fix him?” or “How do I get him to see my point of view?” I know it sounds selfish, but it honestly did come from a place of having certain needs of mine met, like...
Why Men Shut Down or Disappear
The other day, I got a call from a client. “Sarika Aunty, he’s been giving me the cold shoulder over the past two days, what do I do??” Have you been in that situation? Let’s face it. When a man shuts down or withdraws, it freaks us out. You...
Launching of Sarika Aunty!
I have been silent for a few weeks because I have some exciting news… I am going through a rebranding! And you are getting the front-row seat of this transformation 🙂 So, drumrolls please… I am now going to known as Sarika Aunty (have you seen Sima Aunty...
My Thoughts on “Indian Matchmaking” on Netflix
Have you watched Indian Matchmaking on Netflix? As a Love and Relationship coach of Indian heritage, a rom-com junkie and someone who’s experienced years of the ups and downs dating to meet my husband, I joined the rest of America in binge-watching the seemingly...
The Five Levels of Desire
In Indian tantric teachings, there are five levels of desire. These are (roughly): 1. Longing and desiring for something or someone 2. Being mentally and emotionally disturbed by this object of desire 3. Becoming enchanted / intoxicated by this desire (thinking about...Are you ready to turn your dreams of finding your life partner into reality?
