PRIVATE COACHING
Private coaching for accomplished women ready for real love.
Together, we unlearn the patterns that keep love at arm’s length, and build the clarity, confidence, and practical skills to date and love as your most authentic self.
For women who are single, dating, or in a relationship and ready for something healthier.
SOUND FAMILIAR?
You’ve succeeded almost everywhere…
… yet love still feels uncertain.
Your career and friendships are thriving, yet love feels like the one area you can’t quite figure out.
You keep meeting men who are charming at first, then distant, inconsistent, or unwilling to commit.
You notice the same relationship storyline repeating, just with different names.
Family gatherings come with the same well-meaning questions about when you’ll settle down.
You’re in a relationship and want more connection, intimacy, and ease, not more of the same.
None of this means something is wrong with you.
It usually means a pattern that once served you is quietly shaping your love life, and patterns can be unlearned.
Before working with Sarika, I was caught in a pattern of unhealthy relationships and was recentlydivorced. Deep down, I didn’t feel worthy of love, so I held on to relationships that weren’t right for me—including my marriage—even when they didn’t align with my values.
The transformation through our work together has been incredible. I felt myself opening up, releasing old patterns, and becoming more connected to myself.
As I began dating, I met wonderful men and experienced dates that were loving, kind, romantic, and erotic. I also learned to recognize my blocks and trust myself enough to end relationships when they weren’t right for me.
Today, I’m married to a man who blows my mind. I honestly couldn’t have imagined being ready for a relationship like this. He even handmade my engagement and wedding rings!
I’ve never experienced love like this before—someone who genuinely wants to give simply because he sees me as beautiful, kind, and deserving. And now, I can receive his love with grace. I catch myself when old patterns arise, and I feel like a new person in this relationship. I’m even discovering new depths of love for my son.
I’m so grateful to Sarika for helping me step into my most authentic, feminine, and loving self.
I met Sarika while recovering from a breakup, and working with her has been one of the best investments I’ve made in my life.
She taught me how to embrace my divine feminine power and make peace with my past so I could fully open my heart to new love. While I’ve been a mindfulness practitioner for many years, she helped me integrate parts of myself I had neglected.
I’m now dating an amazing man with whom I connect on every level, and we’re talking about creating a magical life together! I feel incredibly grateful, cherished, and happy.
Sarika truly wants what’s best for you. She is honest, real, and completely committed to your spiritual growth and transformation.
After doing Sarika’s program, I met the man of my dreams and we got engaged in 2 months!
In this field, Sarika’s the best at what she does!
HI, I’M SARIKA.
In my thirties, I had a thriving career on Wall Street, wonderful friends, and hundreds of first dates behind me. I thought I had love figured out. Then my fiancé broke off our engagement just weeks after proposing, and I was heartbroken.
In that heartbreak, a few unexpected teachers, including a Romanian psychic and a Vietnamese Buddhist monk, helped me see what I’d been missing. I had been repeating the same painful patterns, again and again. When I stopped trying to get love right and started listening to myself, everything shifted.
Within 90 days, I met my husband, Krishan. We married under the Bodhi tree in India.
Twelve years and three daughters later, I’ve learned that finding love is only the first chapter. The deeper joy is building a relationship where you keep growing as yourself.
Drawing on my computer science engineering and Wharton MBA background, I reverse-engineered my own journey and have spent 15+ years helping accomplished women do the same.
MY APPROACH
Inner work and practical strategy, together.
My approach is holistic. We work on the inner patterns that shape who you’re drawn to and how you show up, and on the practical skills that help you meet and choose the right person.
Our work follows the five pillars of the Soulmate Plan method from my book, The 90-Day Soulmate Plan.
01
Come home to yourself
Reconnect with your emotions, needs, and personal truth, so you can love yourself and others in an authentic way. This is where attunement begins.
02
Heal your heart and close your ex files
Gently clear old beliefs and the patterns behind them, make peace with past relationships, and create room for something new.
03
Rediscover your joy
Build a life that feels alive, passionate, and fully yours, so love becomes something that adds to it, not something you have to earn.
04
Prepare for healthy, lasting love
Learn the communication and relationship skills that build trust, set healthy boundaries, and help connection deepen over time.
05
Date and love with confidence
Create a personal dating plan, online and in person, learn to recognize emotionally available partners, and trust yourself to choose well.
WHAT’S INCLUDED
Personal, high-touch support
Every client’s journey is different, so your coaching is tailored to your background, your goals, and where you are right now.
Private coaching sessions
Two 60-minute one-on-one sessions each month. Each session is transformational and focused on holding you accountable to your goals
Support between sessions
Email or phone support for questions, challenges, profile reviews, and those moments right before or after a date
Your personal dating plan + irresistible dating profile
A calm, realistic plan for dating online and in person that respects your time and energy, plus help creating a profile that sounds like the real you
Practices and resources
A library of meditations, exercises, rituals, and action sheets that turn insight into clear, doable steps
IMAGINE SIX MONTHS FROM NOW…
Love starts to feel different.
You date with ease and confidence, drawn to emotionally available partners, and able to walk away from what isn’t right.
You’re clear on what you want and need, and you trust yourself to choose a partner who shares your values.
You’ve made peace with the past, so old patterns and old relationships no longer run the show.
You communicate openly and kindly, expressing your feelings and needs without overthinking or holding back.
You feel like yourself in love: joyful, grounded, and fully at home in who you are.
IS THIS RIGHT FOR YOU?
Private coaching is a great fit for
Accomplished women who want a partnership that matches the life they’ve built.
Women who are dating, or in a relationship, and want deeper connection and healthier foundations.
Women who are ready to do honest inner work and take practical steps toward lasting love.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is your coaching approach?
My approach is holistic. We work on two levels at once: the inner patterns that shape who you’re drawn to and how you show up in love, and the practical dating and relationship skills that help you meet, choose, and build a life with the right person. Our work follows the five pillars of the Soulmate Plan method tailored to your situation and goals.
Why private coaching instead of figuring it out on my own?
The patterns we carry in love are often the hardest to see from the inside. Coaching gives you a dedicated guide who has walked this path, someone who can spot what you might miss, support you between dates, and help you stay steady when dating feels discouraging. You also gain skills that serve every relationship in your life, at home and at work.
What if there’s something wrong with me?
There isn’t. The patterns that show up in your love life usually developed for good reasons: they helped you succeed, stay safe, or keep the peace. Our work isn’t about fixing you. It’s about gently unlearning what no longer fits, so the authentic, loving woman you already are can lead.
Do you work with women who are already in a relationship?
Yes. Many clients come to me when a relationship is getting serious and they notice old patterns surfacing, or when they want more intimacy, communication, and ease with their partner.
What happens on the free consultation?
It’s a relaxed conversation about where you are in love, what you want, and what may be getting in the way. If it feels like a good fit, I’ll explain how coaching works and which package suits you.There’s no pressure either way.
What’s holding you back from healthy, lasting love? Take the plunge to find out
Whether you’ve got a guarded heart, are an over-giver in your relationships or are just confused about why fulfilling love feels unattainable, private coaching is where we gently unlearn what’s been getting in the way, so you can date and love as your most authentic self.
I decided to try some of Sarika’s suggestions that I learned in her workshop, and just a few weeks later I met an amazing man!
When we started seriously dating, I decided to do private coaching with Sarika because I could see how I might be sabotaging the relationship.
Working with Sarika helped release my blocks and opened me to a fulfilling relationship with the man of my dreams.
I’m excited to report that we’re now happily married with a daughter.
I met a man two months into working with Sarika and fell deeply in love. Before working with her, I hadn’t been able to manifest a real relationship for sixteen years.
Sarika guided me step by step through opening my heart and working on healing. Even though I had fears about delving into the issues holding me back, she confidently guided me through the process.
I’m now finding that doors are opening in different areas of my life. My gifts are getting stronger, and I feel more in control. I’m also able to meditate more easily and focus my energy on my desires.
It’s hard to fully describe the gifts Sarika has shared with me. To me, they are priceless gifts directly from God. She connects with me on a soul level, and I’m grateful to have her guidance.
Laura Anne — Los Angeles
Wellness Specialist and Certified Nurse
Sarika’s coaching was immensely valuable at every stage of dating, from developing a positive mindset to learning how to date effectively online.
Her approach helped me avoid bad dating habits and navigate the ups and downs of the process. Having experienced the entire spectrum of dating herself, she offers an invaluable perspective, combined with empathy and strong communication skills.
I’m now married to an amazing man and have two kids, and I couldn’t be happier with my life.
Thank you, Sarika, for helping make my dreams come true!
Love can feel hopeful again.
Let’s talk about what you want, and how to get there as fully yourself.