Abundant Goddess Summit
Kadena Tate – Why People Give You Their Money – notes
- Wealth & abundance – is a state of consciousness
- Jim Rohn – Average income is the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with
- Let go of everything that isn’t serving me
- Interrupt the pattern of failure – if I say something negative – please stop me! We have disempowering belief systems
- E.g. “I don’t want x clients, etc”
- When I notice habituated ways of thinking/acting – I need to make a change – be conscious of how we are showing up – being present
- Commit to some goal – we keep getting better, as we keep giving – receiving, etc
- She lost money/went into foreclosure – and found out that it was natural for people, before becoming millionaires
- Fear of not deserving money – not setting up boundaries (i.e. giving loans) – unworthiness issues – there is guilt/shame feelings that come up
- Friends will go away
- Build oneself back up
- Powerful lessons
- How to say NO
- How to communicate with clarity and confidence – releasing others’ opinions of me
- She has more spiritual work – where did ‘non-deserving’ come from?
- Wealth is not determined by bank account – when she had no money, she had friends treat her – relationships – rich & full! Connect at heart level
- Pleasant personality will open doors
- We apologize for everything, as women
- Entrepreneurship – income is directly proportional to personal/professional development that we have done
- If you’re an entrepreneur – your job-based partner may not understand – you need to learn how to communicate – your friends cannot go with you
- Loneliness, financial despair, self-imposed bondage/belief systems
- Need new environments / friends – friends will not journey with you (not understand why you’re doing what you’re doing)
- Harmony – more important than balance
- Woman – has to set up working time boundaries (women are always pleasing others, etc) – Communicate openly – calendar, milestones, etc. timeblock daily
- Be clear on what you mean by 6 figures! In God’s consciousness, no difference between $1 and $1M
- Recognize the value of your time
- Mutually beneficial exchange
- 3 Action Steps – what did I learn – write it down
- Take 3 actions
- Why do people give money?
- We’re problem solvers
- The more complex the problem – the greater the compensation! Know the value of our solution
- Take ACTION
- We are compensated by the value that we bring
- Know what problem you are solving – and communicate it!
- Authenticity:
- Being me
- Perfectionism – key destructive factor
- When I decide that I am good enough
- When I am my authentic self, my gifts come in many forms:
- Fresh eyes, fresh perspective
- Ask questions/offer suggestions – unearth ignored opportunities
- Relationships that I have that can open doors
- Accountability partner
- Recognition – see things in people in people – compliments/critique
- Ability to influence other people
- Put everything I create on the internet! Done is better than perfect
- From 40 slides on Pinterest – she picked up 1700 subscribers. If my work is helping someone else – we grow from it
- SPECIAL OFFER:
- Event special –
- http://www.KadenaTate.com – To download 4 FREE Strategies:
- 1) “50 Shades of Paid! Tools to help You Monetize your Value”,
- 2) “Authentic Prosperity Manifesto”,
- 3) “Sound your Note: Market Yourself Naturally and Authentically”,
- 4) “Build Your Team: How to Select Team Members that Support You”